Friday, May 16, 2014

Summer Program: A Photo Update


At Art in Paradise, a 3D art museum. Pretty cool, huh?



My Dolphins class performing Daniel and the Lions

Visiting the retirement home

Manning the ice cream booth

Receiving a blessing from the grandmas and grandpas at the retirement home

New Lanna clothes for the SongKran day

Staff photo 2014

Group photo!

My hearbeat: Sawyer and Pip. Love these boys!

Daniel praying for God to save him from the lions

Ahna's and Sacha's birthday party

visiting Doi Suthep with Jackie, Mary and Lisanne (my new Aussie/New Zealand buddies)

After Charles' funeral at Doi Suthep

Bua Tong waterfall with my Kiwi pals Mary and Lisanne

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Adventures in Improv Class

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Last week, in drama, we were working on making scenery for a play about the three bears and when the girls weren’t there, Pip drew a TV in his bear’s room. Naya came back and was like “Hey, you can have a TV in your room?!” and Pip responded “Sure, everyone can watch TV!”  Then Naya was working on her room and drew a TV as well. She started saying a little story to herself “We have two tvs in our house.Even bears can watch TV, they come in and turn it on and are like ‘Hey! This is fun!’ But they don’t watch the same things, so we need two satellite dishes.”
Today we took the Dolphin kids swimming and the little boys were just so adorable, I could hardly take it. Pip can swim pretty well but he’s still pretty tiny so he wanted me close by all the time to watch him to tricks and catch him when he cannonballed. I was looking at him thinking of the fact that he was only 3 when I first met him and he is growing up so fast. I wish he could stay this age forever because he says the funniest things and is just so darn cute! Then Daniel, who can’t swim at all, was attached to me for a large part of the day encased in his innertube and wanting me to take him to the deep end over and over. He can be such a troublemaker but he is so darn cute, it’s hard to stay mad at him for long.
Once, in class, I had all the kids say something nice about the person to their right and left. When we had gone around the circle, one of the kids asked to say something nice about someone not next to them, and Olive said “Daniel is sooooooooo adorable!” to which Naya replied, “yep, he’s super adorable, but he misbehaves ALL THE TIME!” to which Daniel grinned a huge grin, toothless and all as if to say “yes, I OWN that description.” He talks so fast all the time, sometimes I can’t understand him. Orawan always says that he’s like my real kid because he talks so fast no one can keep up with him. It makes me so sad because his dad really loves him, but can’t take care of him properly because of his job hours. He wants to send Daniel to a children’s home so he can still go to school and be taken care of properly. All the staff think I should take him, but since they are also all living with me at the moment, I’m not sure exactly where they think he would stay. Not to mention all the other things wrong with that scenario.  


Monday, March 10, 2014

Saying Goodbye


March 8, 2014
Ahna is gone. She left Chiang Mai not on a jet plane, but on a bus with Aaron, her fiancĂ©. This is the catalyst that has started me writing again. I can honestly say with about 90% certainty that I would not be alive today without her, so this is a pretty tough day for me. Her absence will affect me profoundly of course, but it would be untrue to think that I am the only one who will miss her. Ahna left all of us in Chiang Mai, all of us who love her dearly and want the best for her and have shared our lives with her for the past four years. She left us to go start a new story with her new husband, and it is without a doubt the best for her. But that does not make it suck any less. I am just sitting here thinking of all the traumatic things and all of the exciting and happy things I have shared and endured with her over the years. I think I have spent more time with Ahna than with any other person in this country other than Sophie. The ripple effect of her presence in this country, at Taw Saeng and in my life will be everlasting, but the ripple effects of her leaving will be hard to overcome.  I actually think Ahna may be the only person I have ever known who has seen me at my absolute rock bottom worst and loved me anyway. She is a true representation of Christ’s love in this world. Selfishly, I (and all her friends) want her and Aaron to move back here to Thailand after their wedding, but that would mean depriving another place of the awesomeness and impact they could have as a couple. I truly believe that those two will change the world. They’ve already changed mine. 
Rock climbing with the kids and Seal

At a coffee shop near Orawan's in-laws' home stay
Aaron and Ahna in the cheesy Thai "love" pose. Clearly Aaron is totally into it.

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Loy Krathong and Yee Peng 2013

These are from this year's celebration of Loy Krathong. I went to the huge lantern send off on Saturday where about 20,000 people celebrated together and sent off lanterns at the same time (well, some people were too impatient and sent them early, but most people sent them together). My camera died, so I didn't get many pictures of that, but Seal and I met up with some of the kids on Monday for the parade and to do some Kom Loi and banana leaf Krathongs. There is more to the story below if you are interested to read. 










I have been enjoying Loy Krathong/Yee Peng and saw the lanterns on Saturday and went to see the parade and do krathongs with the kids and with Seal, another of our Thai staff. But, can you tell me why people have to suck and ruin things when everyone just wants to have a good time?

So, tonight, Seal and I walked down the street to where the families of most of our kids had their booths selling things, and were just chatting with them and the kids and watching the parade, when out of nowhere this white guy from Sweden who had been watching us, comes up and asks where I am from. I say the US, and he's like "Do you like it better here?" so I'm like "sure!" and then he totally goes off about why do all Americans have to come change everyone's religion? So, i"m like "whoa, dude, I don't want to get into a theological discussion with you, I'm just here to watch the parade and enjoy myself."

But, he won't let it go, he starts saying how he has lived with Akha people for 20 years and they are all dumb and uneducated so all these Americans are paying them to change religions. Meanwhile, all the parents and Seal are like "what is he saying? What is he saying?" so I'm trying to translate, and they are like "What? no, it's not about money, it's about your heart." So, I translate that for the guy and say that maybe 50 years ago that was true that people paid Akha people to convert, but not anymore, and he says "oh, I just saw it today," pointing at one of our families who is Christian and has been for years and I see at Akha church every week.

So, I'm just like "whatever, buddy, I don't want to fight with you, I just want to watch the parade," and try to walk away. But, HE FOLLOWS ME and now, he's yelling in the street "F*** Americans! F*** Americans! You are all F***ing horrible people" so finally, I go "Hey, man, this here is my family" but before I can either punch him or give him a piece of my mind, all the parents are stepping between us and saying "don't talk to him, don't listen to him, just go with the kids to the bridge" and Seal is dragging me away because, I don't know, I guess they thought he was gonna like attack me or vice versa.

I hate when stuff like that happens, it really rattles me, because in the moment I am so stunned that someone would tallk that way to a perfect stranger in the middle of a crowd of people and simultaneously want to have a well thought out argument to shut him up and at the same time want to punch him for offending me and the people I love. It's so infuriating! Later I thought, I should have just said "don't worry about it man, there have been missionaries here for 100 years and they've only converted 2% of the population, so your indignation is unwarranted." Oy.  What do you do in those situations (assuming you have been in them).

The evening was redeemed by going to do Khom Loi with about 10 of our kids and then floating Krathongs on the river (after reminding the kids about how Baby Moses was floated on the river and having them say a prayer before we lit them and floated them) and finally taking everyone for a ride in the ferris wheel, during which it started to downpour, so we walked home in the drenching, blinding rain. That part was less fun.

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Photo update: Doi Chang and Fang

These are from my trip to the mountains during our week off. Sophie had to study for mid-terms so couldn't come. 

Prepping veggies for dinner: mom and daughter

Me helping with the veggies

The men cleaning and preparing the pig they just killed

Me with Wa in Doi Chang village

The view outside the bedroom window of Wa's aunt

Gan, Wa, P'Beauw and I hanging on for dear life in the bed of a pickup truck going up a hill with a 60 degree incline

P'Beauw on top of the mountain that is her family's land

Picking beans

Hiking up the side of a mountain

P'Beauw's sister ready to pick veggies

Traditional Akha jacket. Handmade including the loom woven fabric. Made by P'Beauw's mom over 50 years ago.

Wa's family and I at the top of Doi Chang

Doi Chang village

Cousins and grandma preparing dinner

Three generations: P'Beauw's mom, P'Beauw, Wa and Pat

ECHO: my friend Ruth's organization that she helped create infrastructure for. I finally got to see it a week after she moved back to Canada. :(

Neuy and I on our way back from ECHO. Had to take a pic cause the clouds were so amazing.

At the Royal Botanic Gardens in Mae Fah Luang

Lady's slipper orchid. They have hundreds of different colors. These are named after the Queen Mother.

Fountain!

Queen's Gardens

Rock Garden

Orchids

The temple in Neuy's neighborhood in Fang

Photo update:


New puppies: Bear and Jem

Face painting in the park

Faith and Hans doing artwork

King's Kids camp worship time

Friends :) 

Guitar lesson from Elise

Books donated by a church in South Dakota

Doi Suthep with Joy and Neuy

Jem looking plaintive

Huge bamboo trees

Chiang Mai view after the rain

Bhuping Palace gardens